10 Lies Every Parent Should Tell
(because the truth doesn't always produce a positive outcome)
By Mike Zimmerman
1 "The tooth fairy called. She said the way you're behaving, you might as well keep the tooth." Parents threaten consequences all the time, but it helps to have a strong third party on call to bring perspective. From Halloween on, throw all your disciplinary needs onto Santa's lap.
2 "Monsters like to eat dust bunnies. I bet you're going to get lots of monsters in this room." Call it a cleanliness incentive plan.
3 "Mommy and Daddy aren't fighting; we're rearranging the kitchen." Kids might not buy this one, but in our desire to be right, we jump into fights even if it means exposing our kids to adult conflicts. Need to scream? Get 'em out of the house first.
4 "Mommy and Daddy aren't fighting; we're playing leapfrog. On the bed. Without our clothes." In case the makeup sex gets out of hand.
5 "Reading books will make you a millionaire." In today's screen-dominated world, kids must grow up knowing that books, not blogs, will unlock the secrets of their universe.
6 "Don't worry, sweetie, that can't happen here." Um, sure it can. Murder, terrorism, earthquakes—they can strike anytime, anywhere. But parents must be kiddie Pepto-Bismol: Coat them, soothe them, relieve them.
7 "I know everything." Before teachers, coaches, and the kid down the street get their shot, parents must be a child's go-to encyclopedia for all of life's questions. The important thing is that your children, not you, believe it.
8 "That guy is homeless because he didn't eat his vegetables." If you really stretch it, there's science to back this up, given the importance of nutrition to brain health. More important, this lie teaches cause and effect, and gives your child the power to determine his destiny.
9 "I'm not afraid." Your smile is their Kevlar vest, your hug proof that everything will in fact be OK, no matter how bleak reality might be.
10 "This is Mommy's special juice, and it's poison to children." Happy hour is sacred ground, folks.
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Tuesday, 16 March 2010
Las Vegas and Hawaii
Well thought I would write a different blog today as just come back from a wonderful holiday in Vegas and Hawaii.
This was a much needed break - last year was a sad year with my mum dying and just couldnt seem to bounce back. Miss her terribly and at the end of the day it is still hard to believe she is gone.
I needed some more brightness in my life and this was a perfect way to celebrate life with my adoring husband - just the two of us.
We went to Vegas as we have done before but somehow or other it seemed extra special. The thing about Vegas it really has appeal to everyone. Accommodation in February is amazingly cheaper than some other months, the people are friendly but the service in Vegas would have to be the best ever.
We Australians could honestly learn from Vegas as in the 8 days we didnt come across anyone that was grumpy, looking as though they hated their job, rude. We came across incredible service, politeness and eager to give you the best service and then when you throw in the food well you have it all. It made you feel so special and important.
Two of our favourite restaurants were Mon Ami Gabi - means my friend Gabi - the relaxed atmosphere, food, service and views are incredible. I mean this restaurant is packed breakfast lunch and dinner.
Second restaurant was at Caesars called Jo's Seafood and Steakhouse. Fantastic setting, service, food to die for including the seafood salad which is the best ever l have experienced in all my years of wining and dining. Just sensational. Just love this place and keep going back.
The one thing lacking in Vegas across the board is good coffee. We Australians love our coffee and it was only on the last day did we discover the best ever coffee at Bellagio which in itself a magnificant Hotel. Just love it.
What does Vegas have to offer? EVERYTHING. And am not getting paid for this article either.
Just want to tell the world along with no doubt so many other millions of people just how special this place is - the night life, the restaurants, the accommodation, the friendliness, the shopping - oh the shopping is to die for and much much more.
Our second stop was Hawaii - just gorgeous but completely different. We stayed at The Sheraton and was upgraded to a beautiful room overlooking the sea.
Hawaii - well what can we say is that it is a very relaxing, magnificant beautiful place.
The food and service not up to par with Vegas but neither are the restaurants and particularly service in Australia, so you do lower your expectations.
The Cheesecake Factory is a great casual place to have breakfast, lunch and dinner and couldnt get over the cues day in and day out. Oh yes we did partake in breakfast and lunch and dinners there as well.
What we love about Hawaii is the beauty, its people, and you read your books, relax, walk along the beach and sus out the local restaurants hidden around corners. One in particular which was just about two corners from The Sheraton
has great pasta, seafood and good service. Cannot remember the name and we have been going there for the last 5 years. Will remember next time.
Had a wonderful holiday - feel refreshed, happy and looking forward to the next one.
If you are thinking about going on a holiday then just do it because you create so many wonderful memories.
Well I better stop dreaming and get back to work!!!
Pam
www.organicbabe.com.au
Organic Baby Cotton Clothes
This was a much needed break - last year was a sad year with my mum dying and just couldnt seem to bounce back. Miss her terribly and at the end of the day it is still hard to believe she is gone.
I needed some more brightness in my life and this was a perfect way to celebrate life with my adoring husband - just the two of us.
We went to Vegas as we have done before but somehow or other it seemed extra special. The thing about Vegas it really has appeal to everyone. Accommodation in February is amazingly cheaper than some other months, the people are friendly but the service in Vegas would have to be the best ever.
We Australians could honestly learn from Vegas as in the 8 days we didnt come across anyone that was grumpy, looking as though they hated their job, rude. We came across incredible service, politeness and eager to give you the best service and then when you throw in the food well you have it all. It made you feel so special and important.
Two of our favourite restaurants were Mon Ami Gabi - means my friend Gabi - the relaxed atmosphere, food, service and views are incredible. I mean this restaurant is packed breakfast lunch and dinner.
Second restaurant was at Caesars called Jo's Seafood and Steakhouse. Fantastic setting, service, food to die for including the seafood salad which is the best ever l have experienced in all my years of wining and dining. Just sensational. Just love this place and keep going back.
The one thing lacking in Vegas across the board is good coffee. We Australians love our coffee and it was only on the last day did we discover the best ever coffee at Bellagio which in itself a magnificant Hotel. Just love it.
What does Vegas have to offer? EVERYTHING. And am not getting paid for this article either.
Just want to tell the world along with no doubt so many other millions of people just how special this place is - the night life, the restaurants, the accommodation, the friendliness, the shopping - oh the shopping is to die for and much much more.
Our second stop was Hawaii - just gorgeous but completely different. We stayed at The Sheraton and was upgraded to a beautiful room overlooking the sea.
Hawaii - well what can we say is that it is a very relaxing, magnificant beautiful place.
The food and service not up to par with Vegas but neither are the restaurants and particularly service in Australia, so you do lower your expectations.
The Cheesecake Factory is a great casual place to have breakfast, lunch and dinner and couldnt get over the cues day in and day out. Oh yes we did partake in breakfast and lunch and dinners there as well.
What we love about Hawaii is the beauty, its people, and you read your books, relax, walk along the beach and sus out the local restaurants hidden around corners. One in particular which was just about two corners from The Sheraton
has great pasta, seafood and good service. Cannot remember the name and we have been going there for the last 5 years. Will remember next time.
Had a wonderful holiday - feel refreshed, happy and looking forward to the next one.
If you are thinking about going on a holiday then just do it because you create so many wonderful memories.
Well I better stop dreaming and get back to work!!!
Pam
www.organicbabe.com.au
Organic Baby Cotton Clothes
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